Friday, November 13, 2009

YOU ALWAYS HAVE TWO CHOICES.


This is a fantastic story about young man, who understand that he always have two choices in any life situation. He choose to be alive - not dead. Please, read to the end, it's very inspiring!
I am learning to have the attitude and choices like him!

Jerry is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!" He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, "I don`t get it! You can`t be a positive all the time. How do you do it?"

Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in bad mood. I chose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens,I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life.

"Yeah, right, it`s not easy," I protested.

"Yes it is ," Jerry said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. you choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It`s your choice how you live life."

I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, But I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reaching to it. Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gun point by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma center.

After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care,Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body. I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied,"If I were any better, I`d be twins. Wanna see my scars?"I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. "The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door," Jerry replied. "Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or I could choose to die. I chose to live."
"Weren`t you scared? Did you lose consciousness?' I asked.
Jerry continued, "...the paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. "But when they wheeled me into ER and saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read 'he`s a deadman'. I knew I needed to take action".
"What did you do?" I asked. "Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Jerry. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. "yes" I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, "bullets!" Over their laughter, I told them, " I am choosing to live." "Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead."

Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude.

So dear friends, life is all about making choices and we all can choose how to live our life better and happier each day!

The choice is yours! So choose wisely!!!

Thursday, October 15, 2009

KIDS AFFIRMATIONS.


It's very important to teach the kids be confident and believe in themselves!
These affirmations help them build self-esteem and healthy and happy attitude towards themselves and others.
Help your kids start the day right and happy, let them read these affirmations and create great feeling about themselves.
Or you can play the "Happy Attitude" game with them.
You say affirmation for yourself, then child will say affirmation for him/herself. Be creative, kids will learn from you and will mirror you in a good way :-)
It's fun and it's powerful! Enjoy!

  • I have lots of friends.
  • I am a good friend to myself.
  • I play well with others.
  • I'm a good sport.
  • I am helpful.
  • I am a loving person.
  • I'm a good listener.
  • I ask smart questions.
  • I'm full of good ideas.
  • My imagination is fabulous.
  • I have a wonderful mind.
  • I am very creative.
  • I can do anything I set my mind to.
  • I am confident - I CAN DO IT!
  • I believe in myself.
  • I can .... run fast, read well, etc.
  • I'm really good at ... riding my bike, making friends, math, etc.
  • Every problem has an answer.
  • I'm always in the right place at the right time.
  • I always make good choices.
  • Good things happen to me all the time.
  • I can be whatever I want to be.
  • I'M GOOD AT BEING ME!
  • People feel happy when they see me.
  • I love my life and have lots of fun.
  • I DO MY BEST ALL THE TIME.
  • I am unique and special.
  • I am healthy and strong.
  • I'm in great shape.
  • My body is my best friend .
  • I FEEL GREAT!
  • Every day in every way, I am getting better and better.
  • I feel calm and relaxed.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

"MEET THE LADY IN THE MIRORR." workshop.


"Meet the Lady in the Mirror!"
A ONE and ONLY Ladies Empowering Workshop

(If you are a gentleman, please, tell a Lady you think will benefit from this workshop!)

When: Saturday, October 17, 2009 & November 14, 2009
Time:
3pm - 5pm
Where:
You will receive the location info after registration - contact me to reserve your space.

Win a Door Prize:

a "Body/Mind Coaching Session by Phone” - a $110 value!

In this workshop you will...

bullet...look at the lady in the mirror - yourself - and recognize your Power, Beauty, Intelligence, Wisdom, Charisma, Charm, Sexuality, Individuality and Health.
bullet...learn how to accept, love and respect yourself for who you are.
bullet...recognize your gifts and talents!
bullet...learn how to treat yourself with love and respect.
bullet...understand how your mind directs your body to be slim or to be fat, and how to use your mind to get the best results in your body.
bullet...have the tools to use everyday to re-program your negative believes that doesn't serves you anymore.
bullet...learn the secrets of how to reach your ideal body weight naturally and without stress.
bullet...learn how to see the "good" in every situation.
bullet...learn how to use "The Law of Attraction" to attract what you really want and eliminate what doesn't serve you anymore!
bullet...learn how to use your language to empower yourself and others.

All from this two-hour INTERACTIVE, Empowering Ladies Workshop!

Space is limited to 10 ladies, please, reserve your place ASAP

I am very exited to share this Excellent information with you and watch you a become Powerful, Healthy, Happy, Sexy and Fit Lady!

Call or e-mail me if you have any questions.

Friday, October 2, 2009

Louise Hay - Thoughts Create Our Future

Every thought we think, and every word we speak,
is creating our own future.
Our thoughts go out into the universe,
and is accepted,
and brought back to use as experience.
We just think, think, think, think without paying attention to our thinking.
We must be mindful of what we are thinking of.
Our thoughts have the power to attract back to us,
the people, things, circumstances, ideas, places, events that are in alignment with our thoughts.
Do affirmations, be grateful for what we receive from the universe.
Our thoughts are the seeds, our feelings the nurturing.
Create your own future.

What I am and what I will become...

Use Law of Attraction, inspire yourself everyday and reach all your goals and dreams!

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